“Yes, in winter there must be / some healing,”— Bella Akhmadulina, from “Winter” (tr. Geoffrey Dutton and Igor Mezhakoff-Koriakin)
It’s okay if your trauma made you a “weaker” or more sensitive person. This idea that “trauma makes you strong” doesn’t apply to all trauma survivors - in fact I’d argue it doesn’t apply to most.
Traumatic experiences are negative. It’s okay if you came out worse off. That’s what trauma does.
“…there is a level of trauma from which a person simply can’t recover.”— Hanya Yanagihara, from A Stubborn Lack of Redemption, An Interview With Hanya Yanagihara, Author of A Little Life
Carrie Fisher, from The Princess Diarist.
i don’t think the human mind.was built to withstand this on such a. frequent basis



